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DGCon Day 1b

Friday, September 29th, 2006
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I was very excited to attend this first session. I arrived at the main doors of the auditorium early, probably one of the first 50 people inside. I really wanted to get a seat in the very front, but unfortunately, I followed some people to the right and got trapped behind this “media” wall. So I had to settle for some seats in the back, but fortunately, not in the balcony. As a result, I did not take any pictures of David Wells during this first session.

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This is where I waited to get inside


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The view from my seat on the first night
There were about 3,130 people at this conference.


I knew that there would be at least three bloggers attending this conference, bloggers whose blogs I read regularly, that is. And as we were waiting for the session to start, I started panning the crowd looking for a couple of bloggers in particular. I did not have to look very far since we were seated behind the “media” bar. I found live blogger Tim Challies right away. I snuck a picture of him and during the break after the first session, I introduced myself. He seems like a quiet guy and was a little uncomfortable when I shook his hand. But then again, he must get people coming up to him all the time at these conferences since thousands of people like myself read his blog every day. All in all, he’s a nice guy and I’ll probably see him at other conferences that he blogs about. I would like to attend DG each year God willing.

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Tim Challies live blogged each session


The first session began at 7:15 PM. Though hymns are not my favorite style of worship, the voices were good. I like the traditional words a lot. I am more open tolerant about styles of worship music than when I was younger. I realize that God draws people into worship through a person’s musical tastes.

I did not finish reading Wells’ book before this conference (since it was his book that inspired the theme for the conference). However, I don’t think I missed out by not reading it ahead of time because Wells’ talk provided the introduction and the background for all the subsequent talks. And because I read the first hundred pages or so, Mr. Wells’ talk tonight was easier to follow, which is probably why I was able to get more out of it.

Although I did not think Mr. Wells was the most dynamic speaker, I did find him very interesting because he is an intellectual, and older person, and a well-respected author. Because I am currently reading his book, I already knew what kind of tone to expect for his talk. John, on the other hand, was critical, which was not a good attitude for the start of this conference. Criticizing the worship music and the first speaker was definitely not my idea of seeking what good can be gotten from participating in the first session. Honestly, after the first day, I began to wish that I had attended this conference alone or with somebody else.

After the first session and before the evening speaker panel, I think I pretty much was the most insulted I have been in a long time. I commented on why there was a shrieking baby at the conference and how inappropriate that was. The comment back to me was: “Wise words coming from someone who has never had children.”

Well, I am certain the other 3,129 people attending this conference would prefer to listen and participate in these sessions without have to filter out the sounds of a crying hysterical, shrieking child. I won’t bother going into more detail nor the two decades experience I have had working with children almost every day, as well as other parenting experiences here at home. Depositing sperm can make one a father, but it certainly takes more to be a dad. Suffice it to say, I don’t think I will ever be traveling with “close” friends ever again. I think there’s just too much similarity of personalities between good friends that it adds an additional stress to being around each other all the time.

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Friday Foto 09.01.06

Friday, September 1st, 2006

I have not posted anything in awhile. And even my Friday Fotos are kinda older.

Spit

Spit: My best friend’s son, Aiden, enjoying a watermelon seed spitting contest at the San Diego County Fair
photo • teknis | Flickr’s Friday Foto


Ripples

Ripples: Fountain in front of the Student Chapel, Pepperdine University
photo • teknis | Flickr’s Friday Foto


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Freedom 2006

Wednesday, July 5th, 2006

In a break from past Independence Days, Josephine and I celebrated at the fairgrounds again, along with our friends John and Gina and their son, Aiden. Past 4ths have been spent at other friends’ homes, going out for dinner, or watching television. This is the first one where we had no kids with us, each of them were doing their own thing. As with other empty nest type things, we forged a new tradition for ourselves.

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4th of July - A New Tradition Kicking Off


John and Gina were originally going to have something at their place, but after all the fun we had the other day at the fair, we decided it would be more fun for all of us to do the fair, eat there, and enjoy the fireworks and KC & the Sunshine Band concert.

Even with satisfying any whim or craving for munchies . . .

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“Homemade” Potato Chips


Aiden was pouty/whiny most of the day . . .

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Waah


I celebrated the freedom that Josephine and I have to do what we want without the massive responsibility of caring for, thinking about, and placing above oneself, any small children. It’s a freedom that responsible parents don’t have when their children are small or not yet on their own. Though I sometimes still yearn for biological children and feel like I’ve missed out on a big part of life, I silently enjoy our freedom to go places and do things without having to consider the needs of dependents. Josephine feels the same way; she told me the other day when we were at the fair.
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Barbeque

Monday, May 29th, 2006
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Memorial Day Barbeque


Good food and friends. Remembering the vets, supporting the troops, and enjoying our freedom.

BTW, I need to remember to stop down on the f-stop. I’m not quite used to shooting with lenses that are larger than f/4. I wanted to be able to avoid the blur on the sides of the shot since there are two people there. View the slideshow.

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Delighting in God

Saturday, January 14th, 2006

If you think the following sounds like a conversation or an email/letter, you’re right. I couldn’t have said this better than the way it’s written in an email to a friend of mine below, except for the quote from my manager’s email.

It’s been a hectic week for me since my manager is going on a business trip, so I had to help prepare her presentation materials and stuff for her. It was a load of fun though. And she really liked my work.

Thank you both for all your hard work and contributions on this…and JoeBruin88 (yes, I changed it to my pseudonym), thanks especially for putting all the finishing touches on it. Beautiful job!

Anyways, I’ve had a blast this week on the way to work. After listening to the traffic report, I plugin my iPod to my car stereo and listen to the latest podcast sermon from John Piper. He is such a great teacher/pastor. You should listen to his daily radio messages, which are only 25 minutes long. I subscribe to his messages using iTunes. It’s a blessing listening to his teaching each morning instead of the depressing world news. I get to fill my mind with God’s word and sound teaching instead. The web site is at Desiring God Radio.

I’m not sure if you have an mp3 player or an iPod yet. But it is well worth it. Pourpa is selling his brand new iPod (20GB 4th generation) because he just got a new iPod Nano as a gift from his aunt with his name engraved on it. I highly recommend iPod if you don’t have one yet. Let me know if you want to buy it. It’s only a few months old from this summer. He also has an AppleCare extended warranty that he is selling separately.

Anyways, back to the good stuff, commercial is over.

For Christmas I also got this audio bible. It’s perfect too because I hardly have to time to read the bible because I wake up so early every day and am busy. But I can play the bible on my iPod while driving in the car. What I like to do is listen to the chapter that the pastor is going over in church so that it can soak in during the week of the sermon. The audio bible came with mp3 files, so I burned them to a CD as mp3’s instead of audio CD. My car stereo is also an mp3-CD player. Because mp3’s are so compact, I was able to fit the entire bible onto four CDs. If it were regular CD audio, it would probably require over 10 CDs to do that.

Finally, I wanted to tell you about our small group bible study first meeting. I really like this group. We had a pot luck this past Thursday for the first meeting. When we came in we felt so welcome. The host/leaders were very friendly. The guy looked very familiar and then we found out that this person plays the drums at church. He is the best drummer there. I like it when he’s part of the worship team.

I hope you and Gina can get into a small group some day when your schedule eases up and when Aiden is old enough to have some short babysitting. It’s big blessing. I had forgotten how valuable being in a small group is to my walk.

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We Were Valedictorians and Young Once

Saturday, August 20th, 2005

The last memories I have of Julie were in 1984 or 1985. We were studying in the Biomed Library at UCLA. She had transferred to a real school, UCLA, from UC Irvine. After that year, we really didn’t see much of each other at UCLA. She was a Communications major (North Campus) while I was suffering in the Biology department (South Campus). Our common love for the band, Duran Duran, did not bring us together as much as the band’s popularity fizzled. And so life passed on.

A year or so ago, we reconnected electronically. I knew that Julie was the International Vice President for Sony Music in Europe and I was in the middle of my MBA program and also looking for a career change. I contacted Julie out of the blue to see if she could connect me with anyone in Sony San Diego. While that did not pan out, it was good to touch base a couple of times by phone and email.

So now some twenty years later, Josephine and I went to Julie’s parents’ house in Whitter for her California Whittier wedding reception. It was fun, driving through the old stomping grounds of Whittier. I had not been to Julie’s house in a long time since we were in high school. We had launched on some crazy adventures from there that involved going to dance clubs in Los Angeles and under-age drinking. But that was a lifetime ago.

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Valedictorians Reunited with Spouses


Now we’re on the cusp of middle age. Julie finally got hitched to Robert, her long-time boyfriend. And life comes fulls circle.

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Cutting the Cake


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Redeux: Choking the Competition


Josephine and I had a great time. We met and hung out with some of Julie’s friends and family. She had great, authentic Mexican food there. They hired a Mexican woman to make carne asada, pollo asada, and salsa. It tasted sooooo good. It was just like Mr. Taco.

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Chocolate


We stayed for three hours or so, talking and sipping on margaritas. Julie’s nephew played a few songs on the violin for entertainment. It was very cute. I saw myself many years ago playing piano and performing at my parents’ parties.

Because of the traffic going up to Whittier, we decided to take the 60 freeway to the 15 south to head home. So on the way we passed by the high school and my parents’ old house. Memories. The old neighborhood. The tennis courts. Whittier, from days of old.

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La Serna High To You We Pledge


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Memories of Whittier


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Birthday Again

Sunday, April 3rd, 2005

My friends from high school, John and Gina came over. Their new baby is almost one year old and is pretty big for a 10-month old toddler. John wanted to celebrate my birthday, but we turned the tables on them and gave some gifts to them since I had not remembered John’s birthday and we did not have a chance to exchange gifts during Christmas.

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Future Bruin


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Southern Living It Up!


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Flash Drive/PowerPlay Techno Gizmo


Then we went to church together. I decided to take a short video clip (~14 MB - don’t know how long I will keep this link, but it’s here for now) with the camera. After church, John and Gina treated us to dinner at Islands restaurant.

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The Court Is In Session

Thursday, January 13th, 2005
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Open Ranks, March!


Good old C.L. was in town for a financial conference at the La Costa Resort. And he stopped by to visit and meet everybody. I dug inside a box in the garage and found *gasp* the pictures from ROTC. Wow. Amazing how thin and young we all looked. Certainly, we all had more hair back then too. I’ll be posting the pictures soon so everybody can see.

Update:
Here is the link for the pictures. I have a few more, but I have to find them. For now, I think 169 pictures are enough.

Drill Team folks. If you come and look, please feel free to leave a comment, especially on the pictures. Here is the site where you can comment on the pictures. I’d be interested in your reactions.

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Day By Day

Thursday, December 23rd, 2004

“She spent 25 years taking care of me; the least I can do is spend two years taking care of her.” That statement echoes, like the way a water fly disturbs a still pond, sending ripples outward. The solemnness of that statement hits hard for a 25-year old who is the primary caregiver for his ailing mother with rapid-onset Alzheimer’s aphasia. In that statement, I heard the maturity of the adult man coming from the voice of a once carefree 14-year old teen I used to know.

Power of attorney, living trust, medical insurance, medicare/medicaid, hospice, home care . . . Could a person of weaker character effectively manage and deal with these complex issues? Throw the weighty issues of death, divorce, loneliness, chronic illness, depression, abandonment, and isolation on top; you have a boiling pot bubbling over.

The triviality of playing with a new camera or finding a ride home from the airport pales in comparison to these life-altering concerns. A.K., it’s just day-by-day . . . to see clearly the role and purpose this hardship will play in your life, to love dearly those who matter most, and to follow more nearly the One who will provide and comfort for your needs. O dear Lord, three things I pray . . .

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

The New Testament — Revelation 21:4

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Catching Up with Court

Wednesday, November 24th, 2004
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Smile, Conrad. Long time, no see.


Wednesday, November 24, 2004 . . which is 18.7 years later since that fateful day on March 6, 1986 (my birthday, but more importantly the SCIDM Competition - that’s Southern California Invitational Drill Meet).

We can also say 224 months later or 6,838 days since then.

First element leader Conrad and I met up at BJ’s Pizza and Grill in Westwood, CA. I was in town to pick up my son Pourpa for Thanksgiving. So I called Conrad up and we decided to get together to catch up. We had not seen each other in about 18 years! More accurately, it’s about 17 years since Conrad was in one of my bible studies in Rieber Hall during 1987.

We both gave each other the lowdown on our lives since 1986.

Here’s the scoop on thirty-something Conrad:

  • Conrad finished school with a degree in Finance and Accounting from CSUN
    in 1996.
  • Has worked about three or four jobs in finance area. Passed both CPA and
    CFA exams on first attempts.
  • He performs sell-side equity research, specifically covering domestic
    restaurant stocks.
  • Mom sold house in Pacific Palisades in the early 90s (now lives in
    Oregon).
  • Sadly, Dad died in 1999 from lymphoma. Conrad got to spend a lot of time with him, helping him through that.
  • Dating a lovely lady right now.

It was awesome to see Conrad again. Jim Zupon was supposed to meet with us too, but he had a business trip in San Francisco. I called Clarence Warren to see if he wanted to join us, but he has not returend the calls.

Here’s some pics from dinner. Oh by the way, as I finish writing this article, I’m listening/watching my SCIDM tape. And Cadet Colonel Bartock from Moreno Valley High School is reporting in for Exhibition Drill. Next up on the tape, is our first place performance in Regulation Drill.

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